Ask yourself ‘so what?’ Accurately assess what is at stake. Look at your intention. Be honest,state your intentions, and make sincere invitations.
Do you get frustrated with your spouse, your kids, your parents? Maybe you can’t stand your boss, or your co-workers drive you up the wall. I’ll bet you think that if all these pesky people would just quit bothering you that you’d be really happy, right? Well guess what, you’d just find something else to drive you crazy because you like how it feels.